Here is one of my posts from a while back. I was thinking of this today, and instead of rewriting, I just cut and pasted...and fixed some grammar errors.
Monday, July 24, 2006
MAKING MONEY IS NOT THE GOAL OF SUCCESSFUL TRADING, IT'S THE BYPRODUCT
I cannot claim this crazy revelation as my own. I am sure I read it elsewhere and only recently came to understand it as my own. And, I am positive that all those that I read (C.Kirk, Mark Douglas, Marcel Link, et al.) will agree to this:
Making money in trading is hard...especially when you are TRYING to make money. However, if your focus is to make good trades (and THAT truly is your goal) then, AND ONLY THEN, will money be made.
I sit here with a short gold position and I am at least 5 points in the money. I have wanted all morning to add to this position, but there is no good reason to do so..and no good place to re-enter. I simply want to add more to the trade b/c I want to make more money. It's this urge to trade that can kill your account. It has killed my accounts in the past.
A little more....Making the act of making good trades (high probability trades) the goal, makes it easier to make money. When I think..."I just want to make $100 more today.", or "I am adding to my 1 lot and scalping out for 2 more points", it becomes so easy to let money slip away. CHOP CHOP CHOP. But if only I were to wait for good trades to present themselves, I limit my trading to high probability trades. And that's when money comes.
Let's make one thing clear: In a trading day, trades appear dozens of times. If yo are looking at a 5 minute chart, they can appear a hundred times in a day. GOOD TRADES HOWEVER, WILL PRESENT THEMSELVES IN BOLD!!! It's up to you to wait for those trades. Don't take every trade you see, so when the market FINALLY gets to your buy entry point, you are down so much money, or are already leveraged to the hilt, that you can't put the good trade on?!
Good luck, Traders. And remember, just like abstinence (which I am totally against), no one ever got pregnant by NOT trading! You know what I mean.
Andy
Well said. I've been doing this, off and on, about 20 years and can relate. Remember this is gambling. Don't forget that!!
Also -- a lot of times when you "think" you made a stupid trade - it isn't necessarily stupid -- but rather a casualty of the unpredictable chaos of your chosen markets. It's very very difficult to attain any kind of an edge in this. Do you have one? Also what separates you from the pack? What makes you think you're ultimately going to get rich off of this when everyone else will end up a net loser in the long run? Do you know anyone who makes money consistently trading these stock index futures markets. Not many people do.
I think you're on the right track by limiting your entries to only those with the best chance of success. Less is more. Trading all day long is a losers game as you already know. So is averaging your losers... That's a sure fire way of taking big hits.
phil, nj.